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I've mentioned before on here that we've been invited to a wedding in Kenya next February. At the time we were officially invited, I knew I was pregnant but hadn't reached the magic 12 week mark and couldn't really give a reason/excuse for not going to Kenya. The bride to be is also a close friend and she has asked me to be her Matron of Honor, so I told her that I was pregnant much earlier than I had planned to.
The problem we now have is that the Bride to be is getting quite pushy about us booking up for the trip. Prices have gone up, and she's desperate to confirm numbers to the hotel as she has to meet a certain minimum to ensure certain things happen for her wedding i.e. private room for the meal after the ceremony, not having to pay for the extra's associated with the ceremony and so on.
At first, Mr GRR and I said that we would go to Kenya but we would not take Baby GRR with us. I asked my parents months ago if they would have Baby GRR for a week and although they said they would, there's still 6 months to go before Kenya and life could change easily between now and then. Plus with the prices going up, and having to pay for jabs, and having to get to Gatwick (train or car + parking), dog will have to go in kennels, wedding outfits and so on, this could easily become a 3k holiday for which we're only going for 1 week.
So the bride to be has basically issued an ultimatum. I have to book the holiday now or I can no longer be involved in the wedding party. I hate being backed into a corner and have just spent the last 2 hours fuming. There's 7 weeks until Baby GRR arrives and I don't even know what life is going to be like once Baby GRR is here.
So, anybody got any views on what they would do in this situation?
I'm putting this on here because I want some views from people who are totally unconnected with the situation.
Thanks peeps
The problem we now have is that the Bride to be is getting quite pushy about us booking up for the trip. Prices have gone up, and she's desperate to confirm numbers to the hotel as she has to meet a certain minimum to ensure certain things happen for her wedding i.e. private room for the meal after the ceremony, not having to pay for the extra's associated with the ceremony and so on.
At first, Mr GRR and I said that we would go to Kenya but we would not take Baby GRR with us. I asked my parents months ago if they would have Baby GRR for a week and although they said they would, there's still 6 months to go before Kenya and life could change easily between now and then. Plus with the prices going up, and having to pay for jabs, and having to get to Gatwick (train or car + parking), dog will have to go in kennels, wedding outfits and so on, this could easily become a 3k holiday for which we're only going for 1 week.
So the bride to be has basically issued an ultimatum. I have to book the holiday now or I can no longer be involved in the wedding party. I hate being backed into a corner and have just spent the last 2 hours fuming. There's 7 weeks until Baby GRR arrives and I don't even know what life is going to be like once Baby GRR is here.
So, anybody got any views on what they would do in this situation?
I'm putting this on here because I want some views from people who are totally unconnected with the situation.
Thanks peeps
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