This is where you need to learn to sell yourself at the stage of measuring up and suggesting improvements and explaining what you can do. But don't bull-rubbish them. Although you may need to bluff something if they're talking the talk - you don't want to look silly - in that case you'd want to be writing things down they're saying and then come here and we'll put you right so you can post out an estimate with all the babble in it.
Realistically as a tiler you do have much to talk about on every job as you can explain options normally as in what products to use, what you'd use on your own home etc.
Sales techniques come into play a bit. When talking to a customer never say THE bathroom, always YOUR bathroom. It is a job for you and it is their bathroom they get done evey 20 years (or so) but you don't need to come across like that.
Some lads on here go round with photo's of their work, one has a DVD! (also on youtube - excellent niche!), never say you can start next week, even if you can. Say a few weeks at least and then call "as you've had a cancellation".
Always talk asif it is your own kitchen, bathroom, conservatory and treat it with respect. Don't get pulling bits off that are loose and saying "oh, that'll need doing" "and that" "and this" because they may have not noticed how bad it was and it's hard to convince them that it is as shoddy as it might be, they've put up with it for some time no that way no doubt.
Always try and get feel for your customer. A guy renting out his house wont want bespoke this and recessed that. So say to him things like, we'll we can do this and then save a little... etc. But somebody with a ferrari on the drive will want to know what he/she can have that is unique, so don't get saying to them the things you'd say to the Landlord.
Always smile. I know it's dodgy if you don't smile all the time but a customer wants to know they're a decent person, as they're trusting you with something they don't understand. How many mechanics do we knock when they come back with a high price and a glum face? (or I do anyway lol) yet if they come across as if it is not a problem and show they have tried to save me a couple of quid then it is only the price I'm concerned about now, and not just the whole experience... although I would have said to my mate in the pub it was due to the price in the first scenario..... it's just subliminal or something lol.
I've been on a fair few sales training courses (amongst others) and all of them always are based around interaction and getting you out of your shell so to speak. If you just generally seem like a happy bouncy person that knows their stuff and doesn't mess about or come across cocky.... then you have no reason not to sell.
Something you want to work on long-term. You want to know your competition. So if you find out one person is saying they can do a deal on something or other if the customer has this this and this. Then try it out yourself. Or have a come-back for it that you state in your blurb when you're estimating to counter-balance you competitions offer without mentioning them or it.
Do your homework on product knowledge and your customer expectations and really work on those to a level equal to your brilliant tiling and you'll laugh when you get jobs for random reasons and never price.
Price should only be about 10% of the purchase reason. So you just need to go in there and find out what the other 90% is and play on that.
A perfect example......
MANY times you'll quote for a shower that has a leak. It is a big problem in all countries. It is the reason so many companies make tanking and wetroom type solutions.
So when you go in, and you see mouldy grout or dodgy bottom row tiles you should strait away be telling them why it has happened and how you will stop it from happening again. Let the next tiler not mention that and see if he gets the job.
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A few searches your want to be familiar with perhaps:-
sales techniques - Google Search - http://www.google.co.uk/search?sourceid=navclient&ie=UTF-8&rls=GEUA,GEUA:2006-20,GEUA:en&q=sales+techniques
how to sell yourself - Google Search - http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en&rls=GEUA%2CGEUA%3A2006-20%2CGEUA%3Aen&q=how+to+sell+yourself&meta=[DLMURL]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/FISH!_Philosophy[/DLMURL]
http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=e...um=0&ct=result&cd=1&q=FISH+philosophy&spell=1 lol