It's not a disaster so don't get stressed over it Boogi!
Tiling onto old walls like this is a real pain, and it will take so much more adhesive, time, patience and swear words to achieve even half of a decent job. They've been up a long time and they've done their job, but it's time for them to go.
I'd bite the bullet and strip all the areas you want tiling back to the brick/block. It sounds bad, but just bear with us all. Wire brush all the dust off, and then get a 5 litre bottle of SBR, water it down 2 parts water to one part SBR, and get a plant sprayer from b&Q etc and spray this over the walls, brush this in to the walls with a cheap wide paint brush. This with seal the walls and make everything new and nice.
Use 12.5mm plaster board or better still 10mm marmox boards (Insulation Express are really cheap and reliable), dab these on with board adhesive (lots of handy youtube vids). If you are short of space for the bath maybe you could board one wall and dab the other board over the roll of the bath.
This way you'll have lovely sound walls, that will be a million times easier than tiling on dodgy crumbly render or plaster.
Yep it'll add a few quid, and you'll have a bit of dust etc, but honestly go for it and you'll save a ton of agro when tiling.