let down

[nybor62]

should have been starting a new job last thursday, on wed trying to contact my partner to arrange pick up time, not answering phone or replying to texes
9,15 pm wed night i get a text , hi rob ive been thinking long ans hard about this and ive decided i dont want to work with you anymore, i know its not a good time to spring this on you , i hope u understand

i should mention that it is is van has mine packed up

how furious was i tried ringing him no answer, so thursday morn ring him he answers , what the hell is going on you have dropped me right init
is reply was , well you get all the work and take it for granted that i want to do it, some mornings when i wake up i dont want to go to work but feel that i have to because of you ,
this guy has lived of my work contacts for the last 2 years and this is how he repays me, right get my tools over to me now dont muck me about,
ok he says i will fetch them over later, about 2 hrs later i get a text ,are you in im bringing tools over , ok no probs , 5 mins later another text tools are on there way ive sent them over in a taxi
now i am boiling over , i ring him up , what are you playing at , you coward , he thought it was best we did,nt meet face to face ,
still got some tools missing , he wont answer phone or reply to my texts , my wife has stopped me from going to his house because of what i might do, but i dont think i can hold it back much longer
he had a private job lined up worth about 900 each , i questioned him about it but he reckons he did,nt get it , i reckon he,s doing it on his own
well i hope its worth it:mad2::mad2::mad2:

 

[Gazzer]

Jeez its loony time at the moment. After 2 years together didnt you see these signs? he sounds like he has problems to me ?

 

[nybor62]

i thought everything was fine , he was at my house wed morn , the same day he dropped the bomb shell
every dog as his day i will get revenge

 

[Gazzer]

No point planning revenge. Just get on with your work and life , dont waste time on him.

 

[Ian]

As Neale says, revenge will solve nothing. Move on and at least he didn't take loads of cash from you.

 

[kilty55]

sorry to hear it ended this way rob,no point in being angry at him hes said his peice and split.

 

[nybor62]

i know your right , im just so angry

 

[Gazzer]

Very understandable but while you are thinking of revenge and letting it consume you ...he is giving it no thought at all and probably out enjoying himself.

 

[Alan.P]

As above re carry on as usual, if they're your contacts then surely he's the one that will loose out in the long run, no tools, no contacts, get some transport sorted and your away.

Good luck mate.

 

[kilty55]

get yourself a nice cold tinny rob

 

[cynic]

well,about this time last year my so called partner /friend came to my house drunk and wanted to fight. luckily he was that drunk he ended up on the floor ,twice .i had supplied 80% of the work we did and transport and apparantly had dissed him. i still dont know what i did but doing fine so, as above forget him move on and good luck.

 

[Ajax123]

As others have said no point being angry and planning revenge. Perhaps give him the benefit of the doubt that there is something more to it that you are not aware of. Leave it behind and get on with your own life. If he comes to talk then listen it but don't get burned twice. If he does not then forget him and move on.

 

[hillhead]

Chin up, move on.
It's not nice but it's life unfortunately.
Good luck with the lone ranger game if you go it.

 

[Gall.B]

You will be better of without a PASSANGER in the long run Rob.

Simmilar thing happened to me a few years back ended up knocking lumps out of each other over a trowel :lol: His Mrs reckoned we where working to hard etc.......

He now no longer works in the trade & im as busy as ever, sure the same will happen to you & he will end up working in Tescos.

 

[Perry]

two guys in one room take longer than 1 guy in 1 room you are on a winner go for it