let down

[Daz]

I seriously bear a grudge. I don't get mad, I get even.
Not the best advice, I know, but I understand your thoughts.

As everyone else has said, though, you sound better off without him.
Good luck for the future,

Daz

 

[Mike]

sounds like you're better off on your own rob, a blessing in disguise, just watch he doesn't try pinching your contacts. good luck on your own mate

 

[Andy Allen]

from my experience theres normaly more to these situations than people let on, he might be getting earache from the wife for woking long hours/nights away, still dosn't excuse the way hes dumped you in it, but theses things happen.

ive been in a few partnerships, and had subbies working for me, but to be honest, ive never been happier than working on my own, every cloud has a silver lining, as the saying goes..

 

[nybor62]

im starting a premier inn in malton on monday 40 rooms to do ,ive got a young lad to labour for me, will train him up if he is up to it
booked in for is cscs operative card test on monday evening he seems very keen , only 19 at does,nt drink, im sure i will sort that out

 

[Rich]

Does sound like you are better off on your Todd, its a difficult situation at the best of times. If he has pinched your contract then that is naughty but it is also business, it happens to the best of us. I have been on the other end of this a few times in the past and there is never a good time to walk, I just try to give us much notice as possible but it is not always possible to do that.

Just crack on with it and the chances are he will be on the phone in 6 months time asking for work!

 

[Spud]

I have just been through a similar situation but it was me who wanted to split away on my own ,it was the best decision I have made and I will never go into business with a partner again, Rob it might not seem it now but this guy has done you a massive favour and you will never look back, good luck Gary

 

[paul flight]

same happen to me trained him up feed hin watered him and always paid him at end of the week .even when i was skint. he text me on a sunday " not working any more " would not return my calls or texts . i thought we where friends !! what a mug i was!!! he left me right in the s####. i was so angry . but have had the last laugh . mud sticks and i have throw a lot his way....

 

[MTiler]

what goes around comes around

 

[mz30]

Just my tuppence nybor,when you work closely with someone workin day in day out weekends etc you spend more time with your workmates than you do with your own family and over time it becomes hard, am loyal (probably more than i should be )but have had my own brother work for me for 3 years and it all ended when i lost the plot and punched him ,sometimes its better to just call it a day and move on am happier now workin by myself than i have ever been,Hes probably done you a favour.

P.s am not condoning punchin someone took me a while to forgive myself.

 

[Gall.B]

Been there MZ. gets a bit much living in each others pockets working, eating, travelling & lodging together gets a bit much.

 

[Pebbs]

You do end up spending more time with your partner than your family, so when it goes bad, of course you take it hard. You think your both pulling in the right direction and then can get kicked in the face. I understand how angry you feel when this happens, but you know something sometimes your better of without them. Doesnt seem like it now, but it will in the long run.


Lynn

 

[Richard Edwards]

Move on and stick to working on your own - with help if you need it. Your time will come to repay his loyality - just keep your powder dry, bide your time and think smart
You'll be fine