Because of the structure of slate it should not be fixed with sand & cement unless you use a fodifier.
Slate does not absorb as it is made up of layers sheet upon sheet like a laminate these layers dont absorb well, think of roofing slate.
The trick with slate is to get the adhesive to squeeze up between the tiles (not to high obviously) this gives a grab all around where there is more tug available.
Another thing you cant use Lithofin slate seal outside, again because of the structure moisture crawls in from the edges between the surface and the sealer blowing it.
My 2p's worth.
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