Pants isn't it...
The troubler is with that situation Joe Public have usually spent all their money before we turn up to measure, they're fed up and just want it done, cheaply and quickly.
They've had tons of extras off the builders and plumbers and now when you do the right thing and suggest that the walls need sorting they just don't want to hear it.
That guy did you a favour by getting the job, but that isn't the point, huge Porcelain tiles are awkward enough on a decent wall what with size and weight, let alone a lath and plaster wall.
You suggest the correct way but don't get the job cus it doesn't suit.
Ah well, you won't be the one fighting with lath and plaster once it starts falling apart!!!!