Trying to show 21 year old how to grout, Grrrr!!

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I have a young lad with me on this commercial job, he is a nice lad but so slow. We got to the grouting stage today and I got two buckets ready so that I could do two separate mixes for both of us. I mix everything up in one bucket and then see him with a small spacer bucket so I ask him "what is that for?"
"I always mix in this" was his reply.
I explained to him that it would take 2 of my mixes or 20 of his little ones, he wanted to carry on with his twenty little mixes, I explained that there is no way he can get them exactly the same and that he will be using weak grout or stiff grout that could be different shades.
Anyway I did the two mixes and he starts at the bottom of the wall?
"Ash, start at the top mate" I tell him
"why" came his reply
"because I said so, ok!"
He grouts about a quarter of a metre and starts to wash off immediately, "Leave it mate" I tell him, "you are wetting it too much, let it dry a little"
"why, I always do it like this" he says :mad2:
"not today sunshine, today you learn the right way"
He was clearly not happy so I explained to him about letting grout dry a while and then cleaning off, then leave it again before another clean and then how to strike his grout lines.


When will young kids learn to shut up, stop being yappy and learn.


:incazzato:
 
The old way would be to give him a clip round the ear or throw a grout float at his head...
That would make him listen.
Sadly no more !
 
Worked with a few young trainees
They just seem to want to spend their time texting on their mobile
No get up & go
 
Yep, I agree, I've done some lecturing level 2's at the college local to me, and the part timers are brilliant, generally older but really wanting to learn, the teenies and early twenties are a nightmare, and need constantly pulling into line, but, at the end of the day they either want to do it or they don't, some are sent by their Mum's to get them out of the house, so you have to be like their parents!:incazzato:
 
you have a lot of coaching to be doing then Dom. enjoy :smilewinkgrin:

p.s. I'm still watching :lol:
 
He can do it my way or his way and his way will end with a long walk home.

And I am watching you too Liz, will you please get dressed or switch the web cam off, actually leave it on.

:8:
 
My 18 year old is a pain in the rear at times too and he has about 5 years experience !
I left him on site yesterday at 4pm as i went to dentist,i told him to stick on two vertical borders above the bath and clean floor of the bathroom out to be ready for ditra this morning!he didn't complete the borders and no floor clean either,not good enough in my books.
Also i made him remove a couple of pieces,this texting is a joke for youngsters,today his phone was removed.
 
To be fair there are some kids out there that are willing to learn and some of them are very grateful.

I know because not 20 mins ago I was with one of them.
EDIT: ok 50 mins ago, i'm a slow at replying 🙂

About 4 years ago I was called in to sort out another firm’s mess, not by the client I might add but by the firm who got into trouble.

It was a fairly large contract and I acted as a mediator between client and contractor whilst also driving the project forward. Now there was a young lad of 16 who was employed as an apprentice carpenter, the firm didn't have a full time carpenter so who he was an apprentice to is anybody’s guess. The fact was the company was using him as a labourer on apprentice wages of only £20 a day, me being slightly pee'd off that they were taking the Michael but not in a position to start kicking off because I already had enough on my plate, decided to take the kid under my wing and teach him what he should be doing, which wasn't sweeping floors for 8 hours a day! Yes you have to start at the bottom but how the hell are you supposed to learn if you don't do any of your chosen trade.

Anyway I always knew the kid appreciated it. I also knew that after I had finished he would be back to sweeping floors but the kid kept in touch every so often to let me know how he was getting on, when he left and went to another firm I could hear the pride in his voice when he told me he was doing great and really learning now and was keen to show off his new skills, this went on every 5-6 months with updates from him.

Sadly it seems although he is now fully qualified various firms have carried on abusing him financially because of his age, I know he has never earned a great deal of money (even today somebody is taking the mickey by paying him £50 a day) but he sticks at it and wants to better himself, so I’ve always kept aside some old tools of mine that I’ve since upgrade with the intension of giving them to him. So when he rang me last week out of the blue I finally got round to getting them together and telling him he could have them, I believe his was really chuffed and insisted that he wanted to give me some money for them, which I of course refused, so we settled on him taking me for a beer! Which as I say I’ve just come in from and it's great to see him 4 years on and now 20 and taking me out for a beer on his measly wages!

So whilst I completely agree there are some little nupties out there, lets not forget those who are willing to learn, are grateful for it and take all the abuse people throw at them. Dom i'm sure you are just bringing this guy onside so you can then teach him but please always explain why you are telling him something, I know the buggers question you constantly, which all takes time but it doesn't take long before they stop questioning your knowledge and respect that whatever you tell them is the truth.
 
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Dont get me started about mobile phones:incazzato:it sends me crazy. I get phone calls in the office.....it goes something like this....

Phone rings 9.35am

Me..... Morning!
Them....Alright!
Me....Yep good thanks you?
Them.....Yep ...nice morning
Me....Lovely! anything the matter?
Them....No Im just having a *** outside and I thought I would give you a call.
Me....Have you done any work yet?
Them....Yep a bit...
Me...How about doing some more?
Them...You having a laff here Lynnie?
Me...We'll see whos having a laugh, when your wages are knocked on Friday.
Them...Alright Alright Keep your hair on....I was only ringing for a friendly chat!
Me...Whats that have you just had a text come in or something?!!
Them...Yer its just me mate!
Me...I dont want to hear anymore from you today unless theres a problem ok?
Them...Alright Alright...god your in a bad mood today.

Next phone call

Me to the site foreman

Listen go find XXXXXX and get his phone of him this minute, and dont give it him back till 4 ok?

Site Foreman.... Ive been looking for him for the last 20 minutes! dont know where hes gone!

Every single day...theres one of them, and even worse when they text me those stupid jokes...

Pebbs
 
a good kick up the backside , or make him walk home, but i know were your coming from if it aint on a screen or they cant kill it they aint interested
 
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Dont get me started about mobile phones:incazzato:it sends me crazy. I get phone calls in the office.....it goes something like this....

Phone rings 9.35am

Me..... Morning!
Them....Alright!
Me....Yep good thanks you?
Them.....Yep ...nice morning
Me....Lovely! anything the matter?
Them....No Im just having a *** outside and I thought I would give you a call.
Me....Have you done any work yet?
Them....Yep a bit...
Me...How about doing some more?
Them...You having a laff here Lynnie?
Me...We'll see whos having a laugh, when your wages are knocked on Friday.
Them...Alright Alright Keep your hair on....I was only ringing for a friendly chat!
Me...Whats that have you just had a text come in or something?!!
Them...Yer its just me mate!
Me...I dont want to hear anymore from you today unless theres a problem ok?
Them...Alright Alright...god your in a bad mood today.

Next phone call

Me to the site foreman

Listen go find XXXXXX and get his phone of him this minute, and dont give it him back till 4 ok?

Site Foreman.... Ive been looking for him for the last 20 minutes! dont know where hes gone!

Every single day...theres one of them, and even worse when they text me those stupid jokes...

Pebbs


I hate those silly jokes as well....................

































Paddy and Mick are walking into a pub................








:lol:
 
hearing you moan about youngsters makes me laugh Dom

I can just hear your old man giving you grief for not doing as he tells you:lol:

bejesus
 
hearing you moan about youngsters makes me laugh Dom

I can just hear your old man giving you grief for not doing as he tells you:lol:

bejesus

dead right Mike, I still have the lumps and bumps to remind me.

"will you hold dat torch still ya eejit ya!"

"buts its 3'o clock in the morning Dad and I'm freezing and only 7 years old"

"3 o clock! 3 o clock!!, I had to walk 19 miles to work every day ya dunce ya".....blah blah flamin blah...............

:dunce: <---------me aged 7.

:ban:
 
I have a couple of students labouring for me for the holiday period. Initially I thought they both had serious hearing problems ........Ipods!......eventually I had to get serious with them when my polite requests and reasoning didn't work. They always claim they can hear over them but we all know differently especially with the volume they play them at. The Ipods stay in the van now and isn't open to arguement.
 
dead right Mike, I still have the lumps and bumps to remind me.

"will you hold dat torch still ya eejit ya!"

"buts its 3'o clock in the morning Dad and I'm freezing and only 7 years old"

"3 o clock! 3 o clock!!, I had to walk 19 miles to work every day ya dunce ya".....blah blah flamin blah...............

:dunce: <---------me aged 7.

:ban:

:lol::lol::lol::lol:

I used to get

I was up at three to milk the cows:lol:
 
Keep em coming, I havent laughed so much in ages!

Talking of apprentices, I think I have the oldest labourer around hes now 52, bless him.

Pebbs
 
When I first started out, the very first estimate I went out on was with my old boss. He said to me 'right missy! I want you here at 6 sharp or else! and remember to cover your self up or your distract the men from their work!'
Next morning I was up at 4.30....got ready and reached the office at 6.03.
Hes already sitting there waiting...
Your damned late! he screamed.:incazzato:
Im sorry boss...are we going now?
Not before you've made me a cuppa! he screamed back.

Best days of my life they were....

Pebbs
 
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Dom, this kid on your job reminds me of the Old Timer electrician I used to work with many years ago. He'd see a kid like that, not listening, not paying attention, doing it his own way...and he'd say in a slow Southern Virginia drawl:

"You can't (pronouned CAYUNT) teach (pronounced TAYEACH) that boy nuthin'----ya gotta learn him (pronounced LURNUM)" :lol:
 
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I just spat my tea out laughing when I read Robs post again. Careful Rob you could get banned for using words like that!

Pebbs
 
LOL...certainly not what I meant! 😀 I should've written it as KAY-ANT. 🙂 Mods, please moderate that one for me.
 
oh dear, just come across this thread, (i've been ill for a few days) stop the swearing please!!!
 

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