Thanks, I've just got the same answer after popping in to the tile shop (where i'm getting the tiles from, well their second shop anyway).
Fella seemed to know what he was talking about and recommended a 6mm cement board, which negates the need for the membrane (in the dry area at least). (The ply hasn't been put down yet, just the 22mm chip).
The tiles are 22kg per sq.m. and I was thinking of the durabase wp on the walls in the wet area, which would mean 2 lots of adhesive. The fella thought there would be no problem with the weight issue.
Do you think that weight is ok for skimmed plasterboard.
I suppose the other option would be to rip out the plasterboard and put cement boards up.