Yes, I get the principle and I very much prefer to stick to my word as a matter of principle.
However, to me, it is not immaterial that materials costs were inflated (I couldn't truly see this before due to lack of experience) and there still may be work which was not done which I am being charged for.
I appreciate he accepted to discount (down to fairly standard tiling labour costs from high ones) for poor work, I would have preferred him to have priced at the standard he was able to honestly fulfill, since I spent on tiles to match the standard I expected at that price and he didn't do justice to them.
Generally I don't feel he has priced with fair principles for his materials nor labour costs and he 'negged' me as his client, trying to get away with doing less to fix the threshold gap for instance and haggling over minutea himself, such as whether to reduce his materials cost to reflect that I bought the waste pipes myself, even though he agreed such deductions were 'of course' okay at the outset. He also refuses now to fit my shower rail which is the curtain rail for the whole room, so I will have to get someone else in to do it and to hang the mirror.
I was recently bereaved when I hired him, had to get the new bathroom fitted in a hurry and went with the recommeded guy since I thought would take less communication and energy, I also thought he would "get" my "vision" better than the cheaper quote, but I'm not sure that factored in eventuality. I went with the expensive quote and learnt a fair bit along the way.
I think I was a pretty good client, got his favourite brand of taps, was there to answer his questions quickly etc. When he complained I asked too many questions I said we should just have scheduled 'catch ups' which worked okay. The bathroom was taken out early November by the way and I didn't hassle him about timings, even though it's my only bathroom and it's just getting fully finished now.
Neither of us made a friend and there's something sad about that. Being on this situation reminds me that it's best to do the best you can for a fair price that honestly reflects your skill level, building someone's house is quite an intimate thing and there will be a record of you in their home, so "don't go through life with a catchers mitt on both hands". That's this clients view of it.
However, to me, it is not immaterial that materials costs were inflated (I couldn't truly see this before due to lack of experience) and there still may be work which was not done which I am being charged for.
I appreciate he accepted to discount (down to fairly standard tiling labour costs from high ones) for poor work, I would have preferred him to have priced at the standard he was able to honestly fulfill, since I spent on tiles to match the standard I expected at that price and he didn't do justice to them.
Generally I don't feel he has priced with fair principles for his materials nor labour costs and he 'negged' me as his client, trying to get away with doing less to fix the threshold gap for instance and haggling over minutea himself, such as whether to reduce his materials cost to reflect that I bought the waste pipes myself, even though he agreed such deductions were 'of course' okay at the outset. He also refuses now to fit my shower rail which is the curtain rail for the whole room, so I will have to get someone else in to do it and to hang the mirror.
I was recently bereaved when I hired him, had to get the new bathroom fitted in a hurry and went with the recommeded guy since I thought would take less communication and energy, I also thought he would "get" my "vision" better than the cheaper quote, but I'm not sure that factored in eventuality. I went with the expensive quote and learnt a fair bit along the way.
I think I was a pretty good client, got his favourite brand of taps, was there to answer his questions quickly etc. When he complained I asked too many questions I said we should just have scheduled 'catch ups' which worked okay. The bathroom was taken out early November by the way and I didn't hassle him about timings, even though it's my only bathroom and it's just getting fully finished now.
Neither of us made a friend and there's something sad about that. Being on this situation reminds me that it's best to do the best you can for a fair price that honestly reflects your skill level, building someone's house is quite an intimate thing and there will be a record of you in their home, so "don't go through life with a catchers mitt on both hands". That's this clients view of it.