AAAAAHHHHH...but Dave.....
we have noggined out our floors.......then we have installed 18mm ply over floorboards.....at 200mm centres........it is as solid as a rock!!!...
we have allowed a 5mm "expansion" between the 18mm ply boards.....that we have fillled with Silicon.......
its as solid as a rock!.........
why do I need a decoupler?............afterall...they only give a guarentee against laterall movement?........
not diggin............I have to get the car ready........nite nite!
Oak beams are 'solid as a rock' but that doesn't stop them from getting the shakes and spliting.
40mm oak worktops are solid but if screwed down tight to kitchen units they will twist that kitchen out of shape with the greatest of ease as it expands and contracts.
Now even though ply is engineered to be structurally more stable than a single piece of timber, it still expands and contracts along its grain (lateral movement) You say so yourself and it's the reason you leave a 5 mm expansion gap. You can over fix ply though, so peppering it with fixings won't make it any more stable, in fact it can do more harm because those forces have to go somewhere, normally by twisting the product up (non lateral movement).
Fine do away with ply and use backerboards. The timber or concrete structure they are attached to will still expand and contract.
You won't stop a building from moving no matter how hard you try or what you build it out of. Decouplers are just another way to help combat those forces and allow the building to move without causing physical damage to decorative surfaces. Putting skrim tape over plasterboard joints before plastering or putting decorators caulk between skirting and walls before painting are just the same. It's not a guarantee it won't fail, it's a safeguard.
Whether you think decouplers do the job they claim or that it is just introducing another element open to failure is up to the person who uses them to decide. Maybe by watching the results from your test will help them with that decision, assuming they agree with how the tests were carried out holds water.