No British standard is min of 15mm BWP marine grade ply fixed down at a min of 300mm but 15mm is not so easily available so most use 18mm ply if height is a problem but I like to go as thick as I can. It is still a good idea to seal the underside and edges of the boards, this gives a bit of protection from moisture from underneath. Was that meant to say primer G? That will be fine. When it comes to deflection I have one simple rule "if there is any deflection then you can expect your floor to fail". You are lucky enough to have a say in this before the ply goes down, if the floor needs it, then get the joiner to add some noggins and like I said screw it to death. You want that floor as rock solid as you can get it.