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[Mr Tiler]

Ash, do you think it's worth getting a job, any job, doing something else first? Before starting to set yourself up as a tiler? Going self employed from nothing is a big commitment and is going to test you to the absolute limit. Earn, save some money, start tiling part-time, build up your reputation, upgrade your tools/vehicle, and then go self employed when you have more customers than time in the day...

hi racer tbh with you I just cant do it any more im tired of walking into work and being told there and then it is my last day. i was nearly fighting with my last boss as it just done me in and its always the same just as you get sorted and comfortable your let go. at least with this self employment i know where i stand with myself and if work does come along then great if not ive learned to cope without the money for now

 

[Deleted member 9966]

hi racer tbh with you I just cant do it any more im tired of walking into work and being told there and then it is my last day. i was nearly fighting with my last boss as it just done me in and its always the same just as you get sorted and comfortable your let go. at least with this self employment i know where i stand with myself and if work does come along then great if not ive learned to cope without the money for now

so don't set your heart on a permanent job somewhere. there's a big emerging market of agency workers. if you go into it with your eyes open, knowing that it might only last a matter of days, months or weeks, then you don't have to get your hopes up for them to be dashed when they let you go. agency workers are in charge of their own destiny, they get to choose who they work for, how long for, if they don't like something about the job they can move on. And please don't anybody give the diatribe that there are no jobs. www.reed.co.uk currently has 1,260 jobs listed within 10 miles of Wolverhampton, and 457 of those in Wolverhampton itself. The UK jobs market is moving towards customer service, telephony, and retail but there are still manufacturing jobs out there and the big emerging market is in care homes and support work.

If you put away £300 a month into savings, you could have your van insurance money in 10 months.

 

[Gazzer]

Did you go to Howdens Ash ?

 

[Mr Tiler]

lol believe me that is not how it works... you can ask to be moved on but you wont get anymore work from that agency and you will be replaced same day. what people don't realise is that your used and abused with these agencies they don't give you a choice your told to be wherever at a certain time and the job isn't hardly described to you... you turn up, the employer tells you whats what and if you don't like the job its tuff, your doin it or your gone. I may sound like im using some sort of excuse but I have done some seriously bad work and although im only 25 I would say I have had roughly 25-30 different jobs easy. I know there are plenty of jobs out there ive heard the same story too about no jobs but the fact is I could go out and get myself a job within a month no problem ive done it for years but its just not what I want to do. I just want to see how this goes for the first 2 yrs and see how it runs then I will know if it is time to carry on seeking full time employment. which I hope very much is not the case... also i don't ant anything getting in the way of what i want to do and im guessing it will be last minute jobs I get at first as ive been told that's how it starts as all the accomplished tillers are busy for weeks on end so i will end up getting the sack each time i take on a job. cheers

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Did you go to Howdens Ash ?

nah Neale i have lost my drivers licence mate got to get a new one

 

[Deleted member 9966]

But Ash, you have no customers, no experience, no van and little in the way of tools. You expect the tax payers to keep on supporting you whilst you're out of work, the government to support you in becoming self-employed yet you won't display any get up and go, and get yourself a job to get yourself where you want to go. With that kind of attitude you'll never move forward. Dreams don't get handed to you on a plate, life isn't fair and despite everything people have said to you on here, you still think you know more than them. You're 25, not 15. By the time I was 25 I had a mortgage and my own house, a full-time job that I hated but an opportunity came along at work and I took it. Now I'm a middle manager in a manufacturing company, with a bigger house and a bigger mortgage, working for some people who I do wonder where they get their brains from but it's part of life's rich tapestry. you do the things you don't like in order to get the things you want.

 

[Deleted member 9966]

Oh and just to add, I've been made redundant myself. Just as I was trying to increase my mortgage and buy a bigger house. I was out of work for 8 weeks and that 8 weeks was the most demoralising 8 weeks of my life. I was at home, over winter, with a broken boiler, job hunting, still trying to find a buyer for my house as well as a job. After 8 weeks I secured a temporary role, did that for 8 weeks and secured a permanent role, did that for 8 months and jumped ship to where I am now because of potential redundancies. I've been with my current employer for 5 years, I've been in debt, and I've had to pay my mortgage using my credit card before now. My marriage almost ended during that time. Life is tough for everybody, but unless you go out there and grab by the balls, it stays tough.

 

[Gazzer]

Aint that the truth.

 

[Mr Tiler]

no Neale that aint the truth at all try getting a mortgage when your having 3-4 month gaps of work at a time and whatever money you put away just disappears and your ending up back at square one every year with nothing but... a new temp job. ive also been told too many times now I will be taken on and by the last time I was told that... I don't think I was even lisening.

 

[Deleted member 9966]

you can still have a stable, happy and fulfilling life by working as a temp and renting a house. having a permanent job and mortgage is not the be-all and end-all. but you probably won't realise that until you're my age Ash. get a job Ash, believe me, it's the best thing you can do to help yourself.

 

[Mr Tiler]

im signing off in feb so I don't see how I am expecting anyone to help me or support me. I will just wait for the phone to ring and keep cracking on and if it doesn't work out in either 12 or 24 months I am going to have to carry on the way I was before.