Not nice to feel disheartened, is it, not easy to solve it either. Hmmm...
Do you have the Thompson Local directory in your area? Or the Little Red book? Both are free business directories, don't know if the boxes are free but the small ads are. There are also small local trade directories that come with the local paper, my first stop when I look for any trade, because you rightly or wrongly just get this reassuring sense that these are local people and everyone will know them.
Forget about inkjet leaflets, the print is not waterproof, and all it takes is some drops of a mug of tea on them and they look smudged, cheap and nasty, not the kind of image you want to portrait. Yellow pages cost a bomb, really, don't think they work so well, never did for me, but that was in different types of works.
You don't have a van yet, but if you have a car, put a sign and your number in your car window, anything to make you visible.
And maybe you daughter could merrily chat away to her friends' parents what a great tiler you are? Only half joking about this, mothers do listen to their childrens' conversations, and it puts you in a trusted position immediately, seeing your daughter is a guest in whoever's house. Wear the t-shirts mentioned at EVERY birthday party!! :lol: That's all I can think of for now.
But good luck...
